Tuesday, February 4, 2014

Alberto Paz The Love Of My Life

It is with great sadness that I tell you that the love of my life Alberto passed away yesterday in New Orleans. It was sudden. He was teaching a tango lesson in a dance studio. I thank you all for the love and respect you have shown Alberto for these many past years. I hate to use a blog like this, but you have all been a big part of our lives and I thought you would like to know. I will let you all know the arrangements as they evolve. Pray for us. xo xo

Alberto Paz the love of my life

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  1. mighty termiteyFebruary 4, 2014 at 9:33 AM

    prayers and healing during this difficult time. xo

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  2. AnonymousFebruary 4, 2014 at 9:54 AM

    prayers to you and family,may he rest in peace

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  3. JodiFebruary 4, 2014 at 10:03 AM

    Oh no, I am so sorry to hear this. I will be thinking of you in the days to come.

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  4. My Notting HillFebruary 4, 2014 at 11:07 AM

    Valorie, I am so very sorry to hear this. I will be thinking of you and praying for you. With love, Michele

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  5. SqueakFebruary 4, 2014 at 11:28 AM

    Oh, Valorie, my heart is breaking for you. I am so, so sorry.

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  6. AnonymousFebruary 4, 2014 at 11:30 AM

    I am so sorry for your loss. I know you enjoyed every minute of life with him!

    Dee

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  7. AnonymousFebruary 4, 2014 at 11:53 AM

    I am so, so sorry for your loss. My prayers are and will be with you, dear heart.

    Hallie.

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  8. Market DecorFebruary 4, 2014 at 11:54 AM

    I am so sorry,Valerie. I always thought, just by seeing his photos, he looked so kind and warmhearted - my thoughts and prayers go out to you.

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  9. AnonymousFebruary 4, 2014 at 12:11 PM

    This is such shocking news, Valorie. I am so sorry for your loss. You shared so many wonderful times together. He will always be dancing in your heart.

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  10. AnonymousFebruary 4, 2014 at 12:31 PM

    My dear Valorie, it's me Carey. I'm so deeply sorry you've lost your Alberto. I am praying for you and send my love.

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  11. UnknownFebruary 4, 2014 at 12:46 PM

    Thoughts and prayers.

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  12. RonFebruary 4, 2014 at 12:55 PM

    Thoughts and prayers your way. You can honestly say "he died doing something he loved". Love you, Val. May Alberto rest in peace. xo

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  13. TracyFebruary 4, 2014 at 1:01 PM

    I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Although I have only met you once briefly, I feel as if I have come to know both of you through your blog. I am praying for you and the repose of Alberto's soul.

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  14. IreneFebruary 4, 2014 at 1:16 PM

    I am so very sorry, what a tragedy, My deepest sympathies.

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  15. AnonymousFebruary 4, 2014 at 1:24 PM

    A video of Valorie and Alberto dancing in 2003 at Tango Fireworks on Dailymotion:

    http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xyj3n6_valorie-hart-and-alberto-paz-at-the-2003-tango-fireworks_creation

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    1. AnonymousFebruary 7, 2014 at 10:48 AM

      Don't miss the adorable finish to this dance!

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  16. marthaFebruary 4, 2014 at 1:37 PM

    I'm so sorry for your loss and pain. You will be in my thoughts.

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  17. Leslie HarrisFebruary 4, 2014 at 1:44 PM

    Oh my goodness. How very sad. I fell in love with the vision of you both dancing together, always admired your fun, energetic spirits... The suddenness of it all must be so hard. Sending you my prayers and condolences on your heartbreaking loss. He has such a kind face.

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  18. rebeccaFebruary 4, 2014 at 1:51 PM

    I can't imagine the shock and sadness you must feel. I pray for you peace and comfort. May you be surrounded and supported by friends and family in the coming hours, days and weeks.

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  19. AnonymousFebruary 4, 2014 at 1:55 PM

    I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your dear Alberto. Thoughts and prayers for comfort in the difficult days ahead. Much love to you. Jeana B

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  20. laurelFebruary 4, 2014 at 2:11 PM

    I'm so sorry Valorie. Sending you thoughts of love & strength.
    Laurel

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  21. Studio Yuko Jones February 4, 2014 at 2:13 PM

    Valorie, I am so very sorry for your loss. Sending my thoughts and prayers your way. May Alberto rest in peace in the arms of heavenly Father.
    Love,
    Yuko @ northfield gate

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  22. AnonymousFebruary 4, 2014 at 2:13 PM

    So sorry to hear of Alberto's passing, Valorie. My deepest sympathies. I will keep you in my thoughts. You will be without your favorite dancing partner and that makes my heart very sad. Please let us know how you're doing. I think this is a wonderful way to use a blog; to feel more connected to those of us in the ether who admire you and your many talents.

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  23. UnknownFebruary 4, 2014 at 3:10 PM

    I am so sorry. May the memories comfort you at this time. Thoughts and prayers for you.

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  24. UnknownFebruary 4, 2014 at 3:52 PM

    Please accept my condolences.

    You both will be in my thoughts.

    Take care,

    Ivan

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  25. ijudclaireFebruary 4, 2014 at 4:02 PM

    Such sad news but what a way to go. I hope I am dancing at the end of my life. My heart goes out to you.

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  26. GordonFebruary 4, 2014 at 4:32 PM

    Sorry for your loss Valorie. You'll be in my thoughts. Gordon.

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  27. AnonymousFebruary 4, 2014 at 5:50 PM

    So sorry for your loss. You are in my prayer and our hearts. Wanda

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  28. AnonymousFebruary 4, 2014 at 6:43 PM

    LOVE AND PRAYERS TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.

    BILLIE

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  29. sjrFebruary 4, 2014 at 6:50 PM

    So very sorry for your loss, prayers to you and your family. "You-You alone will have stars as no one else has them... In one of the stars I shall be living / In one of them I shall be laughing / And so it will be as if all the stars were laughing when you look at the sky at night"

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  30. UnknownFebruary 4, 2014 at 6:58 PM

    Valorie, I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved Alberto. I'm praying for comfort and strength for you. You know he will always be with you.

    Best,

    Kim

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  31. UnknownFebruary 4, 2014 at 7:02 PM

    I am so terribly sorry. Thoughts and prayers are with you.

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  32. jasonFebruary 4, 2014 at 7:06 PM

    I'm so, so sorry to hear this.
    My prayers are very much with you.

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  33. christy kingFebruary 4, 2014 at 7:08 PM

    I'm so deeply saddened by this heartbreaking news. My prayers and thoughts are with you both.

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  34. Things That InspireFebruary 4, 2014 at 7:17 PM

    Valerie, so sorry for your deep and profound loss. Anonymous wrote it so beautifully - "He will always be dancing in your heart". My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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  35. AnonymousFebruary 4, 2014 at 7:42 PM

    While I have commented earlier, I failed to mention how often Alberto was featured in your blog Valorie especially when you were renovating your kitchen. He always made everything you wanted in your home possible with his engineering skill. I also remember his pride in every design job you published for clients. He was your greatest cheerleader, your lover and best friend. Who could ask for more. My heartfelt sympathy to you and your entire family.

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  36. NancyDaQFebruary 4, 2014 at 9:10 PM

    I'm so sorry about this. God bless you both.

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  37. Divine TheatreFebruary 4, 2014 at 10:45 PM

    I am so sorry. I have no words.
    Look around you, he has left imprints of his soul in this world. May you find solace in that.

    xo

    Andie

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  38. MargaretFebruary 4, 2014 at 11:44 PM

    Eternal rest, grant unto him, O Lord
    and let perpetual light shine upon him.

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  39. AnonymousFebruary 5, 2014 at 5:13 AM

    You are in my thoughts and prayers.
    Karen

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  40. A Perfect GrayFebruary 5, 2014 at 7:06 AM

    valerie, so very sorry. our thoughts and prayers are with you. donna

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  41. AnonymousFebruary 5, 2014 at 8:08 AM

    Oh, my dear Valerie, I am so sorry for your deep loss. My thoughts are with you as you go through this unfathomably difficult time. Cathy

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    1. AnonymousFebruary 6, 2014 at 11:50 AM

      (I am sorry I spelt your name incorrectly, Valorie). Cathy

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  42. ConnieFebruary 5, 2014 at 8:17 AM

    I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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  43. 7th Grade Language Arts - Mrs. ClarkFebruary 5, 2014 at 8:23 AM

    My heart just broke for you. Of course, I've never met either of you, but feel I've gotten to know you throught your blog. Praying for you as you continue on.

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  44. PammaFebruary 5, 2014 at 8:48 AM

    Oh dearest Valorie.....so, so sorry for your loss. My heart is breaking for you and a tear in my eye. Peace and love to you at this sad time.
    Pamela

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  45. MinnieFebruary 5, 2014 at 8:58 AM

    So sorry to read of Alberto's passing, Valorie. You are bereft of a partner in so many meanings of that word. There is no doubt that you are a strong woman who will go forward in your life accompanied by his spirit. Wishing you peace and grace as you grieve. - Minnie

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  46. Susan CFebruary 5, 2014 at 10:16 AM

    My thoughts and prayers are with you, Valorie. How blessed you are to have had Alberto as your partner in life. May the love you shared embrace you and hold you up during this time. He will always be a part of you.

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  47. GerryFebruary 5, 2014 at 11:05 AM

    Valorie, I have no words except to say I'm so sorry for your loss. Your posts you shared about him showed him to be a wonderful, kind man.

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  48. UnknownFebruary 5, 2014 at 11:43 AM

    Oh Valerie, I am shocked and saddened by this news. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

    Johanna Siegmann

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  49. AnonymousFebruary 5, 2014 at 2:46 PM

    My heart is breaking for you! My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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  50. Acanthus and AcornFebruary 5, 2014 at 2:51 PM

    Valerie,
    My sincere sympathy for your profound loss.

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  51. Darleen- Places In The HomeFebruary 5, 2014 at 4:15 PM

    My sincerest sympathy, thoughts and prayers are with you, Valorie. My heart breaks for you at this most sad and difficult time, but as I read your words detailing lunches, good wine and loving times together with your Alberto my heart was also filled with the intent of your sharing words- the joy of reading a story of deep love and a true partnership. My thoughts are with you, Valorie.

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  52. Sharon Rexroad's Bringing Creativity 2 LifeFebruary 6, 2014 at 12:35 AM

    Valorie -- I'm so sorry for your loss. The magic that the two of you had permeated your posts, so we know how his loss will rock you. Lean on us as needed.

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  53. MariFebruary 6, 2014 at 1:06 PM

    Valorie, This cannot be so. You must be telling yourself that too. Alberto died doing what he dearly loved, dancing. If only you had been in his arms; but most importantly, you were and are in his heart. Always. Sending you peaceful, calming energy these next weeks and months. Mari (whom met you a few weeks ago in the Whole Foods parking garage.) Bessings to you.

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  54. marsha cannonFebruary 6, 2014 at 7:33 PM

    I am a regular reader and love your blog. I am so sorry for your loss and will be keeping you in my prayers.

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  55. Jennifer @ Belclaire House February 7, 2014 at 9:53 AM

    I'm so sorry for your loss. That doesn't even seem like an appropriate way to express how sad I am for you even though we've never met. You've been in my prayers though. I hope you can find a moment of peace as you go through this.

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  56. AnonymousFebruary 7, 2014 at 4:25 PM

    I am so sorry for your loss, dear Valorie. I have known you as a couple only through a few photos of course -- but each one had the power to fill my heart with joy. Such a beautiful mutual love. May the memory of your wonderful Alberto bring you much, much strength, and peace. Anne in France

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  57. Jeff MinnichFebruary 7, 2014 at 10:28 PM

    So very sorry--

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  58. Notes From ABroadFebruary 8, 2014 at 12:51 PM

    Oh Valerie, I am so sorry ! I have been so wrapped up in my own grief, I have paid little attention to anything else. I know how you are feeling and I know Time is what heals, memories are painfully comforting and whatever it takes to make you less sad, do it, say it , get through it.
    I wish there something that makes this terrible sadness better but time seems to be the only thing that will work. Much love to you. C

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  59. Candace RoseFebruary 9, 2014 at 3:52 PM

    Dearest Valerie,
    I'm very sorry for the loss of your wonderful husband. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
    xo Candace

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  60. 24 CornersMarch 3, 2014 at 5:10 PM

    Dear Valorie, I am stunned and so very sorry to hear about Alberto. You both were and always will be an inspiration, and a wonderful example of what true love looks like.
    Warmest thoughts and prayers for strength and comfort to you and your family...♥
    xo Jessica

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  61. AnonymousMarch 17, 2014 at 4:46 AM

    Dear Valorie, I am so sorry to hear of your wonderful husbands passing. I pray that all your memories of your life together are as colorful as the day you shared them. I watched your house tour video a hundred times, feeling like I got to know you both. I am saddened for your loss. The music and the love of making a house your home really shines through. Thankfully Alberto was doing what he loved and that he was blessed with a loving wife. Prayers for you and your family... Dawn

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